On my grandfather’s porch in Nashville, he squinted at my rideshare and asked, “Where’s the black SUV we gave you?”—and my mom answered for me, smiling like it was harmless: “Your sister needed it more.” Then my grandpa walked me into his cedar-scented living room, set a single key fob on the coffee table like a warning, and asked one question that made my mother’s face drain of color.
“Why are you arriving in an Uber? What happened to the SUV we bought you for your 24th birthday?” My…