“We just want a peaceful Christmas with the younger crowd, don’t come,” my son texted—polite but cruel. I swallowed the pine-scented candles and the gifts I’d already wrapped, and then my husband and I disappeared for the holiday to save ourselves. But on Christmas morning, I opened my phone to 69 calls—and I understood why… One text. One sentence. The kind of “polite” that leaves you nothing to argue with—and still feels like being erased. I was in the kitchen with sap on my fingers from the wreath, winter wind cutting along the fence outside, traffic thinning on the street, and I truly believed a little more light on the tree would make Christmas feel normal again.
The seventy–first call came in while the snow outside our rental villa was still blue with first light. My phone…